• Dec2025

    Reverse Offering

    December 9, 2025

    This past Sunday, at the end of the sermon, I asked the ushers to come back up to the chancel and to bring their offering baskets with them. I don’t know what folks were thinking – maybe that I was going to ask for a second go-round of people digging...

  • Receiving Generosity

    December 3, 2025

    When have you been the recipient of generosity? How did it change you? My family was the recipient of a huge gift many years ago. Our youngest qualified for a Make-a-Wish gift, and so all of us were sent to the amusement parks of Orlando- all the Disney parks, plus...

  • Nov2025

    December at Live Oak

    November 26, 2025

    Time to get out your calendar and mark it up! December is full of holiday special events at Live Oak. It all starts Saturday, Dec. 6 with the Jingle Jangle Jam from 10:00 am-2:00 pm: drop the kids off for lunch, holiday crafting, and games, while parents shop, wrap presents,...

  • Befriending Grief

    November 19, 2025

    A personal sharing here. I attended a Grief Retreat for Clergy last week. People have kindly asked about it, and I’m happy to share some of my experience, especially since I believe as a society, we don’t talk enough about navigating grief. As many of you know, the last couple...

  • I’ve had some requests for more information about last Sunday’s sermon, “To Protect and Defend the Constitution” – I’m posting some of the direct primary sources below. I can also recommend some storytelling about the creation of the Constitution. One you may want to watch with your family is a...

  • Oct2025

    On Sunday, we talked about witches, or more specifically, beliefs about witches across thousands of years. This was one of those sermons where the information far outpaced the limited time of a service. Since I received so many interesting comments and questions afterwards, I thought I’d share more for those...

  • When I saw the photos of the East Wing of the White House being demolished to make way for the construction of an unvetted ballroom, I viscerally felt sick. I realized that I had seen images like this before, but they were a) always fictional and b) from an attack...

  • Questions…

    October 15, 2025

    Sunday was our Question Box Sunday, where members submit questions and the ministers answer them on the fly. The questions I receive are always impressive, but I think y’all outdid yourself this year. So many good ones, we couldn’t address them all. No problem, you’ve given me great fodder for...

  • Opening the Question Box

    October 7, 2025

    This Sunday, it’s time for one of our most popular services, “The Question Box.” During the offering, you’ll be invited to write down your question on an index card. We’ll gather them, then AJ and I will answer as many as we can during the “sermon” time of the service....

  • Sep2025

    The Boundaries We Set

    September 30, 2025

    One of the bits of wisdom from Brene Brown that I repeat often, to myself and others, is “Clear is kind.” As someone enculturated as a woman in the South, this takes a lot of work. We are taught to be unclear in how we communicate – just think of...