Reverse Offering

This past Sunday, at the end of the sermon, I asked the ushers to come back up to the chancel and to bring their offering baskets with them. I don’t know what folks were thinking – maybe that I was going to ask for a second go-round of people digging...

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Befriending Grief

A personal sharing here. I attended a Grief Retreat for Clergy last week. People have kindly asked about it, and I’m happy to share some of my experience, especially since I believe as a society, we don’t talk enough about navigating grief. As many of you know, the last couple...

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Learning More About the Constitution

I’ve had some requests for more information about last Sunday’s sermon, “To Protect and Defend the Constitution” – I’m posting some of the direct primary sources below. I can also recommend some storytelling about the creation of the Constitution. One you may want to watch with your family is a...

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Something Witchy This Way Comes

On Sunday, we talked about witches, or more specifically, beliefs about witches across thousands of years. This was one of those sermons where the information far outpaced the limited time of a service. Since I received so many interesting comments and questions afterwards, I thought I’d share more for those...

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A Visceral Response: This Isn’t Cinema Magic

When I saw the photos of the East Wing of the White House being demolished to make way for the construction of an unvetted ballroom, I viscerally felt sick. I realized that I had seen images like this before, but they were a) always fictional and b) from an attack...

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Questions…

Sunday was our Question Box Sunday, where members submit questions and the ministers answer them on the fly. The questions I receive are always impressive, but I think y’all outdid yourself this year. So many good ones, we couldn’t address them all. No problem, you’ve given me great fodder for...

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Opening the Question Box

This Sunday, it’s time for one of our most popular services, “The Question Box.” During the offering, you’ll be invited to write down your question on an index card. We’ll gather them, then AJ and I will answer as many as we can during the “sermon” time of the service....

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The Boundaries We Set

One of the bits of wisdom from Brene Brown that I repeat often, to myself and others, is “Clear is kind.” As someone enculturated as a woman in the South, this takes a lot of work. We are taught to be unclear in how we communicate – just think of...

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Conquering Fear

If you are feeling fear these days, worried about the encroaching fascism you see, know that it is by design. People are who are fearful are easier to manipulate. People who are fearful will do terrible things in order to feel safe – turn in their neighbors, act in ways...

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Walking Through the New Liturgy

Spoilers ahead…this Sunday, we’ll have a new order to the worship service! With the beginning of the new church every September, we change the liturgy, that is, the standard script for the worship service. It keeps things fresh, prevents items from becoming “tin gods” that can never be changed, plus...

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